wonder if it was the same guy who got you head over heels some weeks ago, anyway these traits are often very subtle and not easy to spot during the first few weeks of courtship or hanging out but needless to say today we've managed to bring these qualities to light and place our friends into various categories, so let's start with ;
1) THE INSECURE ONE : No body's perfect and we've all got our flaws it can be our physique, finances, facial make up (ie the individual is really ugly) etc so as a rational human being we either tend to ignore it, joke about it or view it as our distinct quality but these guys here are very sensitive to issues they deem as flaws in their persons, so they're always sniffing out for insults and picking offences
at the slightest opportunity, ladies you should stay clear from this one because most of the time spent in your relationship would be with you apologizing and you'd be forced to walk on egg shells around him for the duration of the relationship.
2) The Diva: Just imagine Kanye West, but with a UNIBEN matriculation number, done that yet, then you've got it. These guys can be quite charming at first because they're usually high flyers in whatever it is they're engaged in, ranging from academics, sports, business entertainment and the likes, oozing a lot of self confidence because for one thing they're good and they know they're good and they'll gladly rub it on your face, individuals in this category often transcend confidence to the point arrogance, to them dating you is doing you a very big favor, hence they tend to do what they like, when they like and how they like. I most especially advice against them because sticking around them long enough tends to destroy your self confidence as a woman and soon enough you'd begin to share their opinion that they're actually doing you a favor by being with you.
3) Mr Me ; Ladies ever been on a date with that guy who spent two hours forty-five minutes out of the three hours talking about himself, then you've met Mr Me. I can confidently say that Mr Me's most used vocabulary is "I" no matter how you try changing the subject it always somehow ends up coming back to them, these guys won't give you the attention you require as a woman as they've used it all up on themselves and the person whose reflection they see when they look in the mirror.
4) The Town crier : We all know gossiping is most women's second nature and more often than not, they enjoy sharing information especially with their significant other, whose job is it to listen and input when absolutely necessary, but if you and your man are always trading secrets about your friends and his friends, chances are he's sharing your secrets with one of them , more often than not these guys kiss and tell.
5) Mr Needy :This gentleman right here is always craving for emotional attention, he needs constant proof of your love for him, you'll often here things like, "say I love you too" or "why didn't you say I miss you back" honestly, if your partner needs constant proof to be reminded that you love him with constant demand of emotional strokes and attention such a person will never be satisfied and it will leave you emotional drained lacking the love and attention that all women rightly deserve.
So there you have it, the famous five that should be avoided at all costs, of course if you feel their better qualities outweigh their flaws by all means help yourself, but don't say we didn't warn you.
NB: some will complain that I didn't add the most dreaded of them all "Jealousy" the honest truth is, there's no guy who doesn't have a hint of jealousy when it comes to the woman they care about, so it then boils down to self control and maturity to keep this dreaded beast under control.
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