Why Your Chick is Falling Apart

Many a time, It crosses the mind that every girl falls apart from her relationship. These mysterious happenings do not unfold as a mirage. They are nurtured, controlled and triggered by some very crazy reasons. Some of which are caused by the boys as well. These very factors are what I term, "The female prerogative"

 1. She Never fell In Love with you: "Boys biko! If she doesn't love you, don't force it on her. Making a female fall in love with you is the hardest thing to do. If she loves you, she will be yours. If the chemistry isn't there, don't try to blend It. You may end up in that deadly place where unimportant boys in a girl's life are kept on reserve (FRIENDZONE).

2.  You Started the relationship Wrongly: The way you begin a relationship with a girl matters a lot. If you want something clear then make it bright. Don't begin by acting like you're LIONEL RICHIE and start singing some stupid love songs for her when you're still broke. This is Africa my bro. If you try It, you're just a mile away from that horrible city(FRIENDZONE).

3. You certainly do not Understand your girl: Girls are like mobile devices. They come with different specs. Don't ask a girl out when you're not sure about the device you want. You might end up calling it useless later whereas you didn't do your research properly. *Winks*


4. She thinks you're broke: Being broke Is such a bad feeling. It gets worse when your girlfriend even thinks you're broke. Damn!!! Imagine your girl says to you "I know you're broke but just please try to impress me a little". I know a typical warri guy will prolly steal to lift away that shame from his shoulders.


5. She doesn't  find the relationship worth It: Girls have this way of sensing a guy with great prospects. Could it be that they are magical? I really don't know but they just do.


6. She thinks you are week : Guys! guys! guys! biko! don't ever cry before the girl you love or trying to have a date with. Even if you had six carry overs. Cry inside your mind. Or better still avoid seeing her. Girls hate It when men cry. Except she trully loves you. But still It makes the girl sick of the relationship.

 7.She Is Influenced: She could be influenced by so many factors. It could be her peer groups, environment, or even religion. I know of a girl who dissed her boyfriend just because she found out he was raised up by the streets. Asin (Gutter boy life).


8. She has found a Better guy: Girls are lovely individuals but not to be trusted. They can fry you with salt and after eating you, then spit your bones to another girl. I.e, (Them go use you as ATM). So to every guy out there, if she's not acting like she used to, a guy is prolly making her act in such manner. Forget It, a girl will always leave you If she finds someone better. It's their nature.

 9. The relationship is tensed: Most girls hate it when they are tensed or forced to make decisions under pressure and tension. A typical bini chick will tell you this "Na by force? I nor dey like gragra ohhh.If you nor sabi me, I nor sabi you too ohh". She's most likely to leave the relationship if she's tensed.


10. When you are Stingy: Choi... If you are a stingy dude, please run away from women. Girls hate it when you're so reticent with spending. It drives them crazy. If you're still single, check yourself. Girls need care and pampering. They always want to feel loved. If she's not feeling such emotion, she could probably drop the relationship aside.

                Ps: Girls are not to be understood. Just love them.

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